Friday, December 23, 2011

金门桥下*Fort Point

One cold November Sunday, we arrived at Noah's swim school earlier than normal. So we took a detour and walked around Port Point.  Noah was a little afraid of the narrow corridor and dark rooms of the Fort itself, and he didn't care much for the view either.

两个星期前的一个周日,小肥仔游泳课开始前我们有时间去游泳学校附近的金门桥下的旧日军营转了一圈。小肥仔对军营里黑洞洞的屋子和窄窄的走廊有点怕怕。面对无敌风景也兴趣却缺。


What really made his day was the little grassy slope in front of the public restrooms.  He struggled out of my arms, and started climbing up the slope. What he did next was hilarious and i managed to capture in this little video.

但是当他看到公共厕所前面的一块小草坡,却兴奋的不行。从我怀里挣扎着下来,蹭蹭蹭就爬到坡顶。他接下来的行为令我们捧腹。幸运的拍到这段滑稽录像。。。

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Noah's Big Project

Today is the last day of 2011 at Noah's Day Care.

Noah's ear infection is under control after 3 days of anti-biotics.  The morning traffic was so light that we made it in under 35 minutes door to door. Noah spent most of the ride reading his favorite book and giggling when he noticed the new pair of socks he was wearing today. He seemed to love the black and white checker pattern on them.

During the day, Noah's classroom teacher published an end of the year blog post, which sported quite a few photos with Noah in it.  The one i love the most was one of him sleeping side by side with two of his classmates. We've always wondered how he napped in class. Seeing him sleeping in the picture is immensely satisfying, even though we see him sleeping at home all the time. But this is different. He was content, resting, with his peers, away from home.  He is having his own life, separate from us. this picture suddenly made that concept real.


The napping picture reminded Grandma Aiqi of a different incident, which she told me over the phone.  During the first couple of weeks when Noah just started going to Day Care. He was often too excited to nap during the middle of the day. Once ZM went back to check on him during supposed nap time.  All the kids were sleeping on their little cot. The floor was almost filled with little sleeping toddlers. All the kids but Noah! he, for some reason, had his shirt off, bare chested, lolling around while two teachers sat nearby and watching him, making sure he won't disturbe the sleeping bunch. When ZM told me of the scene, he added his own humorous interpretation, "Noah looked like a little gangster hit men, checking on the aftermath of a battle."  We all laughed. Imaging bare chested Noah as a little gangster hit man...

Today, when i went to pick him up in the afternoon, most of the kids were playing in the toddler yard.  A teacher was blowing bubbles, Noah was so focused on the bubbles, that it took him a good 2 minutes before he noticing me standing directly opposite him, in the middle of the yard.

The little tricycle.
One of his classroom teachers told me that Noah, as if trying to make the most of the last day of the term, undertook a big project. He "collected" all the wooden tricycles from the entire yard, piled them all up, made quite an impressive display. It took him quite a long time to accomplish that.  There are usually a dozen or so such tricycles in the yard, often with a kid pushing it, pulling it, turning it upside down, or even riding it. I could imagine the kind of "persuasion" Noah had to exercise in order to collect all of them to make his project happen.

I'm impressed.  How did he get the idea? and where did he get the patience to see it through. That's quite something for a 17 months old.


Noah的第一场大病


整个十一月Noah和我都在生病。
小家伙先开始咳嗽,传染给我后我就变成支气管炎,咳的比他厉害。还连着几天发烧,看医生吃抗生素,请了半个星期病假。

小家伙的感冒先是走的往常感冒的正常路线,发一天烧,最高不过100华氏。然后烧退了,开始流鼻涕咳嗽。只是这一次没有在两个星期后好转。到了第三个星期好像咳嗽更厉害了。但是并不发烧。另外也许是病的久了,脾气也大了起来。一不如意就磕头,地板墙壁桌面都用头撞的砰砰的。幼儿园的老师也注意到问我们怎么回事。我们也说不出个所以然,只是以为他处于一个什么生气发脾气要磕头的阶段。

直到感恩节前一天,我本来请了假准备小家伙送幼儿园我可以优哉游哉去逛街。逛了一半,只给小家伙买了一件毛衣。幼儿园的电话就来了。说今天磕头频率大幅度提高,每十分钟就来一次,院子里的水泥地,屋子里的大玻璃窗,什么表面硬就拿来撞。老师们都吓坏了,专门派了一个老师陪着他,怕他撞出事故来。我赶忙说我这就赶过来。一边打通儿科医生的电话如此这般讲了一下问要不要立刻带他去看医生。电话那头的顾问护士很尽职,因为我不在现场,要我接通了幼儿园老师,三方电话会谈,她仔细询问了老师很多问题。然后跟我说她要找急诊室当值医生确认一下要不要去急诊室(ER),叫我不要挂,她好再跟我确定下一步的行动。

最后结果是不用去ER, 但是约了当天的医生。我接了小家伙就一路北上直接去了医院。跟米粥通了电话他也到医院和我们会合。看病的医生不是Noah自己的儿科医生,但也是瘦高个年轻美女医生而且非常有亲和力。Noah 最近开始痛恨医生的听诊器等各种仪器,但是她一边跟小家伙聊着天就很利索的全部搞定。结论是经典病例,Noah因为感冒鼻涕咳嗽三个星期,耳道里总是潮湿温暖,是细菌的天堂,所以两个耳朵都在发炎。疼痛不已,才撞墙的。开了抗生素,滴耳朵的止痛麻醉药,告诉我们滴耳朵的和退烧止痛药可以连轴转给他服用,因为他现在非常痛。那种痛放在大人身上也是很痛很痛的。抗生素一般两天后开始见效,估计周六(当时是周三)就可以生龙活虎表现正常了。

我们简直愧疚死了。医生说他耳朵发炎还没有太久,但是我们根据他撞墙的频率来看至少半个星期了。他那么痛,我们却不知不觉。还以为人家疼的撞头是因为发脾气!整个感恩节假期就陪着他康复。

当晚小家伙就发烧,靠着退烧药和滴耳朵药扛过漫漫长夜。周四也就是感恩节还是要经常给他滴药止痛。周五就好一些了,周六开始开始有了笑容。周日基本就完全正常了。等周一去幼儿园,老师们说跟换了个人似的,从早到晚都笑眯眯的精力百倍玩个不停。

十二月第一个星期,吃的好睡的好。回复了本来面目。

然而好景不长,十二月中旬也就是上个礼拜末小家伙又开始流鼻涕咳嗽。周六午睡醒来居然开始发低烧。吃过退烧药会好些,但是药力过了低烧又顽固的回来。这样一直到周日下午,虽然发烧度数不高,99F左右。但是情绪非常不好,午睡醒来大哭不止。也不怎么肯吃东西。给医院打电话约了周一一早的门诊。结果又是两个耳朵都在发炎。又开始了新的一轮抗生素和给耳朵滴药的疗程。

这次的医生是个膀大腰圆的黑人医生,还剃光头。米粥说像他们拳馆的打手。居然是小儿科医生!医生说一般吃抗生素三天耳朵发炎就会痊愈。所以这次的发炎是新的一轮。因为跟上次发病链接这么近,所以他把药力加强了。最明显的后果是小家伙不喜欢吃药了。上次都是主动把药一口气喝完还意犹未尽。这次见了我们拿杯子过来就大叫着逃。试着在吸管外边沾糖,换成有趣的容器,通通不管用。所以现在每天早晚都跟杀猪一样把他按倒硬灌。

不过确实在好起来。昨晚还吃了不少米饭红烧肉和炒青菜。耳朵发炎时他一般拒绝一切需要咀嚼的固体食物,只 肯吃面包(可以含在嘴里化掉)喝牛奶。

也许圣诞节可以健康的过?拭目以待。。。

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Saturday on Embarcadero Blvd 周六的海湾大道

We took Noah for a walk on Embarcadero Blvd this afternoon. It was cloudy, but not too cold. Noah loved chasing pigeons, marveling at the giant sculptures, and staring at the San Francisco Bay from time to time.
周六下午带Noah去海湾边散步。小家伙非常喜欢追鸽子小狗,对巨大的雕塑表示了惊叹,还时不常跑到路边栏杆那里去望着海湾发呆。阴天,没风,所以不冷。 这么走了一个小时左右开始下雨,我们就跑到马路对面我们公司旧金山分部里去避雨。小家伙非常喜欢我们五颜六色的食堂,尝到石榴汽水认为是人间美味,还特别喜欢坐在地毯上的那个绿色大圆圈里。。。 After about an hour, it started to rain, we ran across the boulevard, ducked into Google office to stay dry. Noah loved our colorful decors in the cafeteria, had his share of sparkling pomegranate juice, and really loved sitting inside the big green circle on the carpet. At the end, even climbed onto a kitchen cart.后来还爬到柜子上玩了一会儿。。。 一些照片在这里 后来我们去中国城吃晚饭,出来时雨下得很大了。Noah第一次看到我们张开那把大伞,兴奋得从餐馆到停车场一路尖叫。 Later we went to Chinatown for dinner. By the time we came out of the restaurant, it was pouring rain. Noah for the first time in his life saw a giant umbrella opened up above him to block the rain, he was so excited by the sight that he screamed at the top of his voice all the way from the restaurant to the parking lot.

Monday, October 24, 2011

幼儿园第四周

今天上学路上没睡觉。我每隔十几分钟往后面递给他一个“玩具”,小闹钟,水杯,空水罐,雨伞。最后十分钟开始不耐烦。正好下了高速公路,开了一包oreo饼干,掰成小块递给他,他抓住送到嘴里一口一口的吃。这才满意。 

到了停车场,有些伤心,知道妈妈要走了。就开始带了哭腔哼哼。下了车反而好了。可能因为有妈妈抱着。 同学老师们都在院子里玩。半岛上天气比旧金山略暖。孩子们有穿了绒衣的,也有像Alec那样短裤短袖的。大多男孩子都和Noah一个样长袖单衣,长裤。

开始是赖在身上不下来。我带他到装了很多插销门链子的木板上给他示范有多好玩。他很认真的看,但是依然不肯下来。插销开关的声音引来了别的小朋友。 这时Noah做了一件三个星期以来最有进步的事。他主动要求下地,然后牵着我的手走到院子尽头一个大水管的塑料模型,笑眯眯的坐了进去!原来他最喜欢的玩具是这个,怪不得在家里也喜欢坐在壁炉里面。半封闭的小空间。

老师看到也带了其他小朋友跟过来,并把他从我手里接过去了。小家伙醒过味来,开始大声抗议。

总算有进步了,愿意自己下地了!慢慢会好起来的。

这个周末我还注意到另一个进步。往常我递给他新玩具,他都是把手里的玩具随手扔掉好接新东西。周末开始他会先小心翼翼把手里的宝贝在地板上一个个放好,然后再来接新的。应该是在学校学的吧?我们在家里从没想到教他这个。。。

今天早上换尿布时 还自己拿了新尿布给我。这个绝对是学校里学的。老师从一开始就说在教他们“帮忙”。慢慢的还会教育他们自己爬到换尿布的台子上躺好。。。  哦,对了,昨晚上回家他看了会电视,就爬下沙发,拉着我的手带我到了厨房,然后一屁股坐在地板上,等吃饭!所以虽然老师说他不喜欢和大家一起围着桌子吃饭,他其实还是知道吃饭要到特定的地方坐下来吃。也许我们该象学校里一样给他买套小桌椅,吃饭时用。。。。

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Walking on the Beach


Another gorgeous weekend in San Francisco. Temperature is in the 80's under the sun. Not a hint of breeze.

After Noah's swimming class. we walked to the beach of Crissy Field, and waded in the shallow wave for a bit. Even though the water was still freezing cold, the warm temperature made it bearable. Noah loved standing on the sand and waiting for the wave to come up. He even raised one of his feet while waiting, as if trying to squash the wave as it arrived.

A few slightly bigger wave splashed his shorts wet, Noah got a little nervous as the wave kept getting higher. He turned around and asked to be picked up. But after a minute or two watching the wave from the safety of Mom's arms, he wiggled down to the sand and went toward the wave again.

Monday, October 17, 2011

上幼儿园两周

Noah上幼儿园,今天是第三个礼拜第一天。
早上照例七点天刚蒙蒙亮就兴致勃勃爬起来。看动画长片,吃早餐,如厕,九点十分上路。呼噜呼噜睡了三十分钟。到了幼儿园,又想玩又不想放我走。矛盾的很。最终把他交给老师,大哭着看我走。估计我出了门就会好。

两个礼拜里发了一次烧,逃课一天在家休养,现在还在流鼻涕。去医院检查身体,打了四针预防针,抽了两管血,我们看他可怜就又逃课一天在家玩。

在幼儿园学会了搭积木,学会了把玩具拿来跟别人分享,学会把水啊吃的跟爸妈分。学会要穿鞋穿袜时自己一屁股先坐下。

这个周末发现他喜欢自己给自己找一个小空间。常常钻到壁炉里猫猫睡觉的地方,把猫猫赶走,自己的宝贝玩具都拖进去,把垫子坛子在自己周围堆起来。有时把垫子毯子拖出来在地板上铺好然后躺上去。有一次背靠沙发把沙发上的厚毯子拽下来,围城一个小窝,旁边再放一个靠垫,“窝里”放了喜欢的几块积木,然后笑眯眯地坐进去。两只小胖脚在毯子上登啊登。

开始一个礼拜无论如何不肯睡觉。上礼拜开始终于肯睡了。上周五结结实实从十二点半睡到三点。吃东西也还好。遇见喜欢的午餐就大吃一顿。不喜欢就靠零食过日子。据老师说不喜欢吃豆子。可是看他们的菜单上几乎天天都吃豆子。所以也许只是某种豆子或者某种豆子的做法不合他的意?

上周开始喜欢屯东西。不吃也要在手里攥着。周五我去接他时,手里攥了一片梨。老师说已经攥了半个小时了,那之前攥了一小块胡萝卜。今天早上分吃爸爸的羊角面包,也是坚持要两个手一手攥了一小块,舍不得吃,用嘴直接接了爸爸喂给他吃的面包和香蕉。

Monday, October 3, 2011

First day @day care

More precisely, first half day.
Noah did pretty well. He was calm when we said goodbye to him after drop off. He was calm when we picked him up three and half hours later.

He wasn't even that excited to see us back. The sparkle in his eyes was less about "get me out of here", but more about "there were so many exciting new things i've done today".

Teachers told us he was very upset about an hour after we were gone. Later when his primary teacher iterated the details of how he got upset, we concluded that he got upset because he was bored after an hour playing indoors and wanted to go out. When that request wasn't granted, he threw a fit. In other words, he wasn't homesick, nor was he missing us.

He slept the whole way while we drove home.  The remainder of the day he spent playing in our house, and ate a ton of food. I've never seen him with such a healthy appetite.

A few video clips from recent months:





Friday, August 26, 2011

幼儿园见面会 (Meeting the Day Care Family)

昨天Noah幼儿园开家长会,会前留出两个小时时间开放教室,让小朋友们入园前见见老师同学家长们。

一进教室门,小家伙眼睛就亮了,到处都是好玩的东西,各种材料各种形状有闪亮的各种学校自制的“玩具”。但是他还是稍微腼腆了一下,回身在我身上粘了一下,才扭身下地,走了两步觉得还是不太好意思,又假惺惺跑回我身边靠了靠,便义无反顾的扑了出去。一个角落一个角落玩过去。那叫一个开心。

其实叫“玩具”不如叫“道具”更贴切。除了两面大鼓,一些手鼓和打击乐器是买的。其他通通都是废物回收手工做的。用的是日常物件很合了小家伙的心意,旧的光碟盒子啊,塑料包装合啊,硬纸板做的套在一起的圈圈啊。而且小家伙从来没见过,看着更新鲜。没几分钟在场的三个老师都注意到小家伙喜欢“装”东西,无论大小都要找个可以放的地方,或者是大圈套小圈,或者是一个角落搜罗来的“蛋”要放到另一个桌上的“罐子”里。总之小家伙以迅雷不急掩耳的速度把教室里的各种玩具布局都变了样子。

班上一共七个小朋友,六男一女。我们这次见了四个男孩子:
  • Arjun (阿祝),印度父母都是我们公司的工程师,和Noah同一天生日。还不会走,但是爬得飞快,扶着墙站起来比Noah还高,但是比较瘦。
  • Alec(阿莱克),以色列父母。父亲是个心理学博士生还没毕业。八月三日生日。走的很好了,会上楼梯,但是还不会下楼梯。唯一一个会说话的小孩,还会手语。当天见了面就学会了说Noah的名字,开始老是说“哇哇”,最后终于说对了“诺哇”。非常喜欢跟着Noah走来走去,Noah做什么他一定会跟过来凑热闹。
  • Sameer(撒米尔),印度父母。七月二十四号生日。眼睛大大的头发卷卷的,总是笑眯眯的,刚进门我们还以为是个女孩子。个子和Noah差不多。也会走了。但是非常非常安静。
  • Joshua (约书亚),韩国父母。十八个月大了,个头比Noah大,也很安静。
一直以为Noah是个很好对付的小孩。这次跟人家一比才发现Noah是最能折腾的一个。原来并不是所有的男孩子都像他这么一刻不停。后来大家一起去会议室开会。他是所有小孩里第一个开始不耐烦大闹着要出去的。后来阿祝和阿莱克也开始闹,但是人家的哭声远远比不上Noah那么震耳欲聋,所以破坏力没有他大。撒米尔和约书亚一直静悄悄的自己玩。一点没有无聊的感觉。

五个小孩里,Noah也是块头最大的。这下不用担心被别人欺负,倒是担心他会不会欺负别人。。。

全班七个孩子,六男一女。六个男孩子里有两个一周只来三天。三个老师轮流照顾整个班级,确保总有两个老师同时在场。开学分成三组。下周开始三个学生开学,两个星期后再来两个。第三拨十月初开学。Noah属于第三拨。



前后在幼儿园呆了不过两个半小时,累惨了。当晚睡的特别好。在自己的小床上一觉睡到天亮!也就是说等小家伙上了幼儿园我就不用半夜起来啦!

Friday, August 12, 2011

Swimming Class Progress Report

Noah started taking swimming class on July 5th at La Petite Baleen San Francisco.

The first two classes (weekly) didn't go so well. He cried almost the entire 30 minutes each time. Starting from the 3rd class, we switched him to a different time slot. Noah seemed to be more receptive of the new teacher. The crying diminished. Starting from 4th class, he still cries from time to time, but he was able to swim under water without much trouble.

This week, on his 6th lesson, he made a dramatic shift. No more crying. He thoroughly enjoyed the entire class and eagerly participated in every activity, and didn't want to leave the pool when the class ended!

Wow!

Sunday, July 24, 2011

霹雳舞*生日*海边*预防针

Noah最近喜欢跳舞,而且貌似在跳霹雳舞。我们猜是因为美国国庆那个礼拜羊外婆来给他放了小时候喜欢的爱跳舞的小企鹅pigloo的原因。


一岁生日给他买了蛋糕和气球,等他午睡起来给他一个惊喜。小家伙很给面子,欣喜若狂。尤其喜欢那个气球。

爸爸带他去海边玩沙。幸福的几乎晕过去。先是奋不顾身的追着海浪往海里跑,然后全神贯注玩沙其乐无穷。。。


游泳课上到第三堂,小家伙不怎么哭了而且还潜泳若干次。太佩服了。尤其事米粥和我都不会潜泳。。。小小家伙一岁就超过父母啦!

生日过后(七月十三)去身体检查,身高和体重都在85%左右,头围达到了99%这样不可思议的境界!
那天打了一大批预防针:水痘(chickenpox),麻疹(measles),腮腺炎(mumps),风疹( rubella )。当时医生说可能会对预防针有反应:发烧,出疹子都属于正常。其实从他刚出生打预防针时就有这样的警告。我们也没有太在意。结果反应非常强烈。周三打的针,周四凌晨开始发烧100度左右。周四晚上甚至烧到101.4华氏(38.5C).周六到是大好了。然后开始出疹子。一直到今天还没有褪干净。不过既不疼也不痒。就是穿了游泳裤有点不好看而已。其他无碍。

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

First Swimming Lesson 第一堂游泳课

The teacher and I didn't do a good job easing him into the pool. on top of that he absolutely hated the buoy. But he adapted at the end(after i took out the buoy). and was actually enjoying the pool during the last 10 minutes. All photos courtesy of Yangmama.

Lessons learned summarized by Yangmama (who loves swimming with a passion and still swims 3 times a week at 24 hour fitness till this day!):
1) he breathed in water from his nose almost immediately when we got in the pool. he coughed but was more curious than upset
2) when the teacher tried to put the swim goggle on him, the elastic band  snapped and he cried for the first time, but stopped quickly.
3) After all that, mom surrendered him to a total stranger (the teacher)!!
4) worse still when the stranger returned him to mommy, they straddled him into this strange thing called buoy that separated him from mom!!!

By then he has had enough!

it is amazing he recovered from all that at the end of the class!
本来应该九个月开始带他游泳的。错过了我们社区夏天游泳课的注册机会。就拖下来。上周同事给我推荐一个专门给小孩子设置的游泳馆(la petite Baleen Swimming School),他知道在南湾有分馆。我一查,刚在旧金山开了一家。周末去注册了。今天开始第一堂课。一岁有点大,他知道害怕了。同班的只有两个五个月的小婴孩,已经上了一个月的课了。我们有点心急,小家伙刚下水就呛了一口水。有点怕怕。紧紧抱着妈妈不敢离开一会。接下来老师又给他套了个他非常不喜欢的救生圈。开始大哭大闹。救生圈摘了才好些。抱着他在游泳池里绕弯。他慢慢放松下来。最后几分钟已经开始喜欢了。噼里啪啦拍水玩。。。

酷爱游泳的羊外婆的总结:我们一下水就犯了四个错误 1)让他呛到水 2)老师试图给他带游泳眼镜时不小心勒疼了他 3)妈妈居然在这种情况下把他交给陌生人(老师)抱!4)救生圈把他和妈妈隔开了。所以犯了这四个错误之后他只有大哭大闹,谁也不相信了。

所有照片都来自羊外婆!感谢!

很神气的等着下水。。。Waiting to go in the pool...

怕怕怕怕 This is SCARY!

不要救生圈!Get me OUT of here!
嗯。。。好像还不错,可以拍水花。。。Hmmmm this is not so bad, i can splash!

好玩!Loving splashing...

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Noah and Cats

Noah loves playing with our cats. He was surprisingly gentle. His favorite "game" with the cats are 1)holding on a cat's tail and let the cat drag him forward 2)bury his head on the cat's soft furry belly and snuggle.


Sunday, June 12, 2011

Fighting flu and Doing Lots of Walking



Right when Noah turned 10 month in May, he got his first cold/fever. We found out about the fever 3am in the morning. The fever (101F) only lasted for a day, and he had to live with a running nose for a week. He was only fussy during the first day when the fever was present. He was back to his normal cheerful self afterwards.

3 weeks later he got sick again, this time, the fever was hovering around 100F for two days. and he got very badly stuffed nose. We used "Simply Saline for Baby" before and during his sleep, it helped alot. This second cold was a lot tougher than the first. He was up every hour during the first night. Both ZM and I were sleep walking the next day. Thankfully, he mostly recovered after a week.

Both times, he passed on his "bug" to me. And i got a lot sicker than he did. :(

Even with getting in and out of sickness, Noah was a very busy baby. He started walking independently right after he turned 10-month-old. Since then he has done lots of walking.

at home:


at Gui's:


on the sidewalk of SF:


Oh, he also has 6 teeth now. I don't even know when the last two came out. Just noticed one day they were there right next to his two upper teeth. So now he has 4 upper teeth and 2 bottom ones.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Standing Up, Hands Free

Over the weekend, Noah started to show signs that he was able to stand up without holding onto any support. Monday he was able to do that for a considerable amount of time. It didn't escape him, and boy, was he excited. Before bed time, he was practicing in our big bed. Stood up unassisted, waving both hands in the air as if he was dancing, giggling all the while; fell, then stood up again, and repeat over and over, like the audience in a sports arena doing the wave. He was babbling really loud too, as if announcing to the world, "look at me! hands free! free!"
ZM captured this photo this morning, while he has calmed down substantially from last night.

Anticipating him able to take his first independent step any day now...

Monday, April 11, 2011

录像三则:拖把小英雄, 和猫猫共午餐, 开门





满地乱爬, 新牙, 呀呀学语

明天小东西就满九个月了.流口水的趋势本来减缓, 一天湿不透一个围嘴. 可是上周开始又有口水长流的倾向,一般一天要两三块围嘴了. 周末早上出门我随手一摸,牙!上牙露头了.怪不得.

再有就是现在开始满地乱爬. 飞快. 稍微一错眼, 就一路爬到屋子另一头了. 当然这种横跨运动最经常的动力是追猫. 追到了就很陶醉的把脸埋在猫猫肚子上又舔又闻. 弄一脸一嘴毛算数.

最近"话"也多起来.虽然听上去都是同样的音调:搭答答答答, 大大大答, 嗯嗯嗯嗯. 几乎都是落在升调上,好像都是感叹句. 很多时候都是表示惊喜(找到一个好久不见的玩具),或者发现了啥(一般是走过来的猫猫). 昨天比较好玩. 他在卧室地板上爬来爬去.为了方便监督他,我索性躺在地毯上看kindle. 他正好爬到我身边,看到我平躺下来,四足着地的他抬起一只小手,坐了个手势,食指指地,眼睛瞪得大大地说"达达打打答?"明显是问句,好像很惊讶的说"妈妈怎么躺在地板上?!"我当时很想回他一句,您小人家不是天天在地板上爬?!有趣的是他会对我躺地板上这件是表示惊讶.因为平时我们并没有说过不许在地上躺之类的话.他却能从没见过这个现象而推理出这个现象的不合理性.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

小巫师和他的扫帚 (Little Wizard and His Broomstick )

最近Noah开始满屋乱爬, 爬行过程中发现了这把扫帚. 现在一有机会就抓来挥舞一番.  让我想起我小时候挥舞着红缨枪杀向鸡窝的壮举来...

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Sleep Well

During the past month, i've been trying to get Noah to sleep without holding him and bouncing on the ball. Instead, we both went to bed together when he seemed tired, and i would stay with him, pat him until he fell asleep "on his own". He would crawl around the bed, and fuss. Often cry pretty hard right before he fell asleep.

Then, a turning point came this past Sunday night.

We were again in bed together, he seemed really happy to be lying down. ZM was still in transit, and Noah hasn't seen daddy for four days. Noah was lying in my arms, facing away from me, looking at ZM's pillow, playing with the t-shirt ZM sleeps in, babbling for a little while. Next thing i knew he was sound asleep. No fuss, and so fast!

I thought it was just an exceptional day. Maybe i really tired him out since we were out having brunch with Gui and Matthew, then went shopping in the Mall.

But last night and tonight were both the rerun of Sunday night! Putting Noah to bed has suddenly turned from an hour-long struggle into an half hour breeze. The best part was Noah remained happy the whole time! Amazing!

Eight Month and one week old. Noah finally gets the sleep routine. bliss.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

第一次感冒

Noah这个礼拜就满八个月了。
上周四开始流清鼻涕。精神很好,也不发烧。吃得下睡得着。我们就没太在意。
周日开始鼻涕不那么清了。依然不发烧。睡觉吃饭都没有影响。唯一让他不爽的是我们给他用纸巾擦鼻涕,每次都要大喊大叫。一定要蹭在我们身上算数。
直到昨晚第一次因为不舒服而睡不着。醒醒睡睡,几乎闹了一夜。我早上起来感觉好像一夜没合眼似的。走起路来轻飘飘的。知道他是因为鼻子不通气的缘故。小家伙依然没有发烧。早上醒来一如既往笑眯眯。

上网查了查。唯一要注意的是别变成耳朵发炎。据说一般情况下一周左右就会好的。

但愿不会发展成中耳炎。。。

Sunday, March 6, 2011

参观幼儿园

公司幼儿园的候补名单是有了名的长。经常听说同事刚一怀孕就把孩子的名字加到候补名单里,因为只有那样才有可能在孩子三四个月时排到入托的名额。我们因为住在旧金山,觉得早晚开车时间太久,所以开始并没有考虑送小家伙去公司幼儿园。因此没有早早的去排队。

一直等到我产假结束,我们才觉得也许公司的幼儿园是个不错的选择。我稍微调查研究了一下。才知道公司的幼儿园的实际花费是每个孩子一年四万多。公司补贴一半,员工付一半。就这样还是每月两千多的高价。两千多是一岁前小婴儿的价钱。小孩子越大,费用相应便宜些。

去年十一月份我们终于也加入了等候长龙。现在在小家伙的年龄组排到第78。今年秋天入托的可能性微乎其微。同事还是建议我们去参观一下,看看这种教育方式我们是不是能接受。亚洲同事事先提醒过我,说这里的原则和前不久很火的“虎妈妈”的方式完全背道而驰。他说参观幼儿园的时候,有个小孩子从自己的“教室”跑到门口,大声告诉这些外人不许进“我们的教室”。同事说这要是在亚洲,就算不是一个巴掌扇过去,也得厉声喝退。要知道带队参观的一般是校务主任等级的老师啊。结果他们的带队老师很抱歉的和那个小屁孩儿说我们不进去,只是路过。结果参观的家长们都在小孩严厉的目光里做贼似的溜墙边过去。。。

参观那天交通很通畅。四十分钟不到就到了幼儿园,正好看到不少家长来送孩子。幼儿园的外观其貌不扬。只是一系列的大屋顶平房。后来发现其实拍出来的照片也非常的其貌不扬。只是一些沙坑,游乐场而已。


大门


走廊

中班孩子的沙坑,院子


大班孩子的沙坑和玩具


因为涉及到别的小孩子的隐私。所以我们没有拍教室里面。幼儿园分四个年级。婴儿班三个月到一岁。幼儿班一岁到三岁。学前小班三岁到四岁。学前班四岁到五岁。学前班的小孩子们的活动比较有规模。带队老师给了几个例子。一个是一帮小孩子决定在门口的空地上种些植物,目的是为了给土里的虫子们一些遮阳的东西。然后决定在植物间铺一个石子路,这样可以保护植物不受侵扰。石子路怎么拼的决定来自其中一个小孩,他说要拼成一个S形状,因为他的名字以S开头。其他孩子也就同意了。

另外一个项目是小孩子们要保护大青虫不被鸟吃掉,好变成蝴蝶。到底怎么保护,孩子们开会讨论了好几个礼拜,方案五花八门,比如建造一个房顶。后来决定架一个稻草人。然后又研究讨论架一个什么样的稻草人。从讨论到完工花了好几个月的时间。

我们看到的小班的教室规模都不大,因为小班最小,最多不超过七个孩子。但是里面分成好几个区域。有睡觉的地方,有换尿布的地方,有玩耍的地方。有个小班在两个屋子间还搭了一个“独木桥”样的东西。老师说这个班的孩子很喜欢运动,所以搭了这么个东西在室内可以随时玩。婴儿班和幼儿班的孩子因为有自己的作息时间,所以没有统一午睡时间,而是谁困了就去睡。大班的孩子们午睡习惯比较统一,所以一般大家一起睡。

带队老师还专门带我们看了一块草坪,说这里是孩子们可以随便玩,采花吃花,吃草,打滚,怎么都可以。因为他们想让孩子知道真正的草踩在脚下是什么样子的。

当然因为公司以美食出名。孩子们在吃上也不会亏待了。他们有专门一个美食团队天天为孩子们设计菜谱,从零食到午餐都是最新鲜的有机材料。菜谱也会提前寄给家长,家长可以根据孩子自己的饮食习惯加以修改或者什么可以什么不可以事先跟老师打招呼。

跟我们一块参观的有个小孩子的外祖母,原来也是幼儿园老师,所以问了很多教育理念方式的问题。带队老师讲了不少。主要是增强孩子的语感,词汇量,和学习习惯。比方说小婴儿说“哒哒哒哒哒哒哒哒”,老师会说,啊,你爸爸今天早上送你来是在你脸颊两边都亲了一下。比方说小婴儿换完尿布,老师会拿出本子和笔边记边说咱们赶快记下来你外婆才会知道今天下午三点你拉了臭臭。这样日积月累,小孩子会积累词汇之间的联系“哒哒”和“爸爸”。以及各种交流方式的重要性,这样他们也知道重要事情发生了要写下来。老师给了例子说有小孩子会说,我要给尼克写个纸条告诉他我明天不来上学,老师我该怎么写,你告诉我。。。

同行的另一个家长问起语言问题,因为他们家里都是讲土耳其语。带队老师说这里是鼓励孩子把家里的语言带进幼儿园的。老师里有讲普通话的和西班牙语的,像土耳其这样比较冷门的语言,老师们会向家长学一些词汇来和孩子沟通。这样的结果往往是孩子们互相学到不少语言和浅显的词汇

一个学前小班在画室里不知道上着什么课,我们被允许进去旁观了几分钟。带队老师跟小朋友门打了招呼,得到小朋友们的允许我们才进去。四个小朋友围坐在一张方桌周围,老师拿了一罐子磨得很光滑得貌似大理石的蛋。小朋友们一人拿了一颗,然后老师就让他们自由发表意见,来描述这是什么。我们观摩的那几分钟,老师一直在鼓励小朋友们各抒己见,从始至终没有“让我来告诉你这是什么”的意思。

经过小班教室时,有个教室里面两个小婴孩儿趴在门上往外看我们,他们老师就打开了门,我们Noah很大方的走过去,和一个小朋友握了握手。。。

参观完了,更加为我们微乎其微的入学可能而叹息。。。真该早点来排队啊!

二月份的某周菜单:
Snacks & Lunch (点心与午餐)

周一:
Morning Snack (上午点心)

**Oatmeal with Raisins (葡萄干燕麦粥)
Rolled oats, maple syrup, raisins & sea salt (燕麦片,枫叶糖浆,葡萄干,海盐)

Lunch (午餐)

**Baked Tofu Dippers (烤豆腐干)
Organic Wildwood tofu, rice bran oil & sea salt (野木牌有机豆腐,米糠油,海盐)

**Sweet and Sour Sauce (酸甜沾料)
Ketchup, molasses, rice vinegar, tamari, ground ginger, cornstarch,
garlic & sea salt (西红柿酱,糖蜜,米醋,酱油,姜末,淀粉,蒜,海盐)

**Massa Brown Rice (马萨糙米)
Organic Massa brown rice, water & sea salt (有机马萨糙米,水,海盐)

**Steamed Bok Choy (清蒸小白菜)
**Oranges (橘子)

Afternoon Snack (下午点心)
Fromager D'affinios (法国奶酪)
Made with rennet derived from animal products (含动物脂肪)
**Pears (梨)

周二

Morning Snack (上午点心)

*Hasty Pudding (冬冬布丁)
Cornmeal, milk, molasses, raisins, brown sugar, cinnamon, ginger,
nutmeg, cloves, sea salt & butter (棒子面,牛奶,糖蜜,葡萄干,红糖,肉桂,姜,肉豆蔻,丁香,海盐,黄油)

Lunch (午餐)

Meat Sauce (肉酱)
Coleman Ranch lean ground sirloin, onion, carrot, tomatoes, garlic,
basil, oregano, extra virgin olive oil & sea salt (科尔蒙农场瘦牛肉末,洋葱,胡萝卜,西红柿,蒜,罗勒,牛至, 初榨橄榄油, 海盐)

**Cannellini Beans in Tomato Sauce (西红柿酱烧大豆)
Organic cannellini beans, onion, tomatoes, garlic, basil, oregano,
extra virgin olive oil & sea salt (有机大豆,洋葱,西红柿,蒜,罗勒,牛至, 初榨橄榄油, 海盐)

*Shredded Parmesan Cheese (意大利干酪粉)

**Spaghetti Marinara (西红柿酱意面)
Egg free whole wheat spaghetti, onion, tomato, garlic, basil, oregano,
extra virgin olive oil & sea salt (无蛋全麦意大利面条,洋葱,西红柿,蒜,罗勒,牛至, 初榨橄榄油, 海盐)

**Steamed Asparagus (清蒸芦笋)
**Tangerines (小橘子)

Afternoon Snack (下午点心)

**Roasted Sweet Potato Chunks (烤地瓜块)
Sweet potato, extra virgin olive oil & sea salt (地瓜,初榨橄榄油, 海盐)

*Dill Yogurt Dip (莳萝蘸酸奶)
Whole milk yogurt, garlic, onion powder, garlic powder, dill, vegan
worchestershire sauce, extra virgin olive oil & sea salt (全脂酸奶,蒜,洋葱粉,蒜粉,莳萝,全素辣醋酱油,初榨橄榄油, 海盐)

周三
Morning Snack (上午点心)

**Blueberry Corn Bread (蓝莓玉米面包)
Corn meal, blueberries, flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda,
agave, soy milk, vinegar, rice bran oil & sea salt (玉米面,蓝莓,面粉,糖,苏打粉,龙舌兰,豆浆,醋,米糠油,海盐)

*Banana Yogurt Smoothie (香蕉酸奶冰沙)
Organic Strauss whole milk yogurt, banana & agave (有机斯特劳斯全脂酸奶,香蕉,龙舌兰)

Lunch (午餐)

Mustard Tarragon Chicken (芥末鸡加香艾菊)
Free range chicken breast, shallots, chicken stock, dijon mustard,
sour cream, tarragon, olive oil & sea salt (走地鸡胸,小洋葱,鸡汤,第戎芥末酱,酸奶油,香艾菊,橄榄油,海盐)

**Borlotti Beans (酸果蔓豆)
Rancho Gordo heirloom beans, yellow onions, extra virgin olive oil & sea salt (戈多牧场传家宝豆,蒜苗(?真的?),初炸橄榄油,海盐)

**Massa Brown Rice (马萨糙米)
Organic Massa brown rice, water & sea salt (有机马萨糙米,水,海盐)

**Steamed Green Beans (清蒸豆角)
**Apples(苹果)

Afternoon Snack (下午点心)

**Miso Bean Dip (味僧汤蘸酱)
Navy beans, onion, vegetable stock, miso, parsley, extra virgin olive
oil & sea salt (菜豆,洋葱,蔬菜汤,味僧汤,香菜,初榨橄榄油,海盐)

**Vegetable Crudité (法式蔬菜色拉)
A selection of the season's best vegetables, which may be raw or
roasted with grapeseed oil & sea salt (时鲜菜蔬,有的生拌,有的用葡萄籽油和海盐烤过)

周四
Morning Snack (上午点心)

**Jook (Brown Rice Porridge) (糙米粥)
Brown rice, Asian vegetable stock (carrot, celery, onion, green onion,
mushroom, ginger), peas, tamari & green onions (糙米,亚洲菜汤-包括胡萝卜,芹菜,洋葱,葱,蘑菇,姜,豌豆,酱油,葱)

Lunch (午餐)
Turkey Kofta (火鸡肉丸)
Ground white meat turkey, parsley, cilantro, onion, cinnamon, cloves,
allspice, coriander, cumin, nutmeg, garlic, extra virgin olive oil &
sea salt (火鸡白肉末,香菜,意大利香菜,洋葱,肉桂,丁香,多香果,茴香,小茴香,肉豆蔻,,蒜,初榨橄榄油,海盐)

**Seitan Kofta (面筋素丸子)
Seitan, parsley, cilantro, onion, cinnamon, cloves, allspice,
coriander, cumin, nutmeg, garlic, extra virgin olive oil & sea salt (面筋,香菜,胡荽叶,洋葱,肉桂,丁香,多香果,肉豆蔻,,蒜,初榨橄榄油,海盐)

**Whole Wheat Pita (全麦面饼)
Bread flour, whole wheat flour, yeast, water, olive oil, salt & sugar (面包粉,全麦粉,发酵粉,水,橄榄油,盐,糖)

**Cucumber Slices & Cherry Tomatoes (黄瓜条,小西红柿)
**Blood Oranges (血橙)

Afternoon Snack (下午点心)
**Banana Coconut Pudding (香蕉椰子布丁)
Coconut milk, bananas, sugar, cornstarch, vanilla & sea salt (椰奶,香蕉,糖,淀粉,香草,海盐)
**Friendship Fruit Salad (友谊水果色拉)

Monday, February 28, 2011

Rapid Development

Noah is learning new things everyday. We are overwhelmed by his rapid development nowadays.

He is very comfortable "cruising" in his little jail, he does it exactly the same way as we traverse a rock face when climbing.

He is practicing balance while crouching down and then standing up all with one handheld only. And he really wanted to let go of that one handheld too.

He is eager to walk if we hold him from the back. With long stride.

This morning he started jumping up and down while holding on the edge of his crib. It looked as if he was dancing disco.

While we are both in bed, he would push himself up on all fours, then lay his head on me to rest. It was so cute it melt my heart every time he does that.

Monday, February 7, 2011

The Joy of Climbing

After pulling himself up to a standing position, Noah started exploring other maneuvers that he could accomplish in the crib. As long as i don't leave the room, he could be content to practice on his own for up to an hour.

Watching him learning to use his limbs this way reminded me of climbing. It was so similar.

"okay, two hands holding on bummer holds, now can i reach further diagonally?" gingerly freed up left hand and trying to reach...close, closer, got it! whew!
now, can i move the other hand over too? FELL! crap. try again.
right hand out first, can't reach, how about i twist my body this way, ah, better. let me move my feet closer too, then. now that's much better.

It goes on like this over and over. It was fun to watch Noah gets better and better from practice. He was much faster at adapting and progressing in his crib than me on the rock though.

I wonder whether adults love climbing so much because it allows us to go back in time and remember how much fun it was to learn to use our limbs again.

Gui said it also explained why kids naturally love rock climbing. It came to them very easily since it was so fresh in their mind how to use their bodies to scale the space, either horizontally or vertically.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

美国人民-小肥仔站起来啦! Noah Stood up!


周一晚上我下班回来。放他坐在自己的小床一角,给了个他喜欢的玩具,准备让他玩一会我好离开一小会儿。他居然麻利的两只小手抓住小床上换尿布台子的栏杆,一使劲就稳当当站起来了!!!很得意的望着我笑。看他那个熟练劲儿,我还以为他白天就开始练习这一招了。一问ZM说没有啊。

可惜当时光线太暗,没有拍照留念,这么历史性的时刻。。。后来ZM过来围观,小家伙反而运了半天气,只是半跪着啃起了栏杆,不肯再接再厉站起来了。。。

Monday night, i sat Noah down in his crib, gave him a toy he loved to play with, and was going to leave the room for a bit. He surprised me by grabbing the bar of the diaper changing station attached to his crib, and pulled him up to a standing position. He did it so quickly and efficiently, i thought he must have been practicing it during the day.  When i asked ZM about it, he was surprised too.

When i walked back to the crib with ZM and hoping Noah would show off his new trick, he just pulled himself to a kneeling position and started chewing the bar, refused to go further.

too bad it was too dark to take a photo. What a moment!

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Six Month Checkup Stats

Weight 8.618kg (19lb) 77%
Height 0.686m (2'3") 72%
HC 46cm (18.11") 96%

Above average weight, above average height. a HUGE head! :)

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Six Month - Crawling!

Noah is six month old today.

In addition to the two front teeth, Noah's another accomplishment in the recent days is a big one. He can now crawl! We still have to trick him to do it. But his form looks good! :)